Most people base their judgments on what they see, here, touch, taste, and smell. It’s a real kindergarden way of forming judgments, but some of us are stuck there and have no clue there’s more.
A better way to form judgments would be to use those first five senses listed above and then to add to them wisdom and understanding. You get a much smoother, more complete mix when you do that.
I decided years ago I would not diet again to try to lose weight. Since then, I’ve been working assiduously INSIDE of myself to make the corrections necessary for a permanent healing. Having lived those years, having known the corrections I’ve made, the OUTSIDE of me doesn’t look better - in fact, it might even look worse. Being inside here, I know there are two more MAJOR MISTAKES left to correct. I know what they are and I know how to make them.
I’m working on them, too, but they don’t show on the outside either. :( For those who judge me from the outside and who see only BIG, they have no clue if I’m waiting, if I’ve quit trying anything, or if I’m persevering. I find it absolutely serendipitous that Tut, the Universe, addressed this very topic today. We must have been blogging about it simultaneously yesterday.
So I wonder about you: if you are a plus-sized woman, and you know darn good and well the pain of scornful judgment based on opinions, are you ready for some support from other plus-sized women who know where you park your goat?
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