Welcome back!

Yesterday, we talked about the story of dating deception originating in Nigeria, asking for money - natch! - which I so cleverly side-stepped due to astuteness and watching with my mouth shut until that rascally man hung himself with his own lying words. If you missed it, click here.

Today, after I encouraged Percy about the wisdom of NOT sitting on my wrist as I’m typing, I want to tell you the story of Mikey.  Last week, I met who seemed to be a wonderful guy.  He lived a bit of a driving distance, but he said all the right words.  I’ll share a few of them for you.

“I just love big, voluptuous women.”

“You seem so intelligent and articulate.”

I asked him then, what it was he found so attractive about Large Women and his reply went along these lines:

“Why do you ask?  What an unusual question.”  So I said that in my experience there ARE some men who truly do love Large Women and then there are some men who exploit their vulnerability, and he responded:

“I do understand your skepticism and I’m sure it’s well founded.  You don’t appear to be either needy or vulnerable.  Instead you seem to be very confident and self-assured….an emotional and sexual turn on.”

Have we had any further communication? No, and I don’t think we will because I have a strong sense (I’d really like to be wrong about this because he seemed like such a nice fellow) that I flushed another fox out of the hen house. Three days without any contact have passed.  You know, there was a time when that would have bothered me and I would have retreated into rejection.  Now, having gone up and down this road a time or two, I’m willing to let it be what it is, be grateful for my understanding, and recognize that I just prevented me from deception. And I am not abandoning me!

BTW, I do believe in the words of Charley Strong that there is a lid for every pot and I’ll find mine.

With love in my heart, I hope my story helps you sidestep this kind of individual too. You can learn these skills at The World of Within. I’d love to help you get inside you and love you.

Love,

Pat