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Most people base their judgments on what they see, here, touch, taste, and smell.  It’s a real kindergarden way of forming judgments, but some of us are stuck there and have no clue there’s more.

A better way to form judgments would be to use those first five senses listed above and then to add to them wisdom and understanding.  You get a much smoother, more complete mix when you do that.

I decided years ago I would not diet again to try to lose weight.  Since then, I’ve been working assiduously INSIDE of myself to make the corrections necessary for a permanent healing.  Having lived those years, having known the corrections I’ve made, the OUTSIDE of me doesn’t look better - in fact, it might even look worse.  Being inside here, I know there are two more MAJOR MISTAKES left to correct. I know what they are and I know how to make them.

I’m working on them, too, but they don’t show on the outside either.  :(  For those who judge me from the outside and who see only BIG, they have no clue if I’m waiting, if I’ve quit trying anything, or if I’m persevering. I find it absolutely serendipitous that Tut, the Universe, addressed this very topic today. We must have been blogging about it simultaneously yesterday.

So I wonder about you:  if you are a plus-sized woman, and you know darn good and well the pain of scornful judgment based on opinions, are you ready for some support from other plus-sized women who know where you park your goat?

It’s imperative you sign up for my ezine right away.  Later this week, I’m kicking off a new teleclass series from the ezine called The Lies You Were Told About Being Overweight.  There will be ten classes; they will be dirt cheap.  You cannot afford to miss this incredible opportunity to glean all my understanding (plus lots of free gifts) from me.  Sign up for my ezine, In-Sights, right away so you don’t miss the special issue coming out later this week.  Look in the upper right for the sign-up box. This series will revolutionize how you feel about your one sweet self.

Love you,

Pat

Pat & Sister Deb

My sister Deb has been dieting far longer than I have.  She’s like a lot of my readers who only know about diet and exercise.  Diet and exercise have not provided a permanent resolution in over 50 years for her, yet she returns to them time and again. I know that a lot of you have that shtick going as well.

I do things differently. I have allowed myself to NOT use diet and exercise for many, many years. I made this decision because I truly wanted to resolve things permanently once and for all since I recognized that diet and exercise doesn’t work.  I do believe, in fact, that all this up and down associated with dieting is not good.  I did it for just years before I finally gave it up.  I now have perfect health.  I wonder if you yo-yo dieters out there can say the same?

So what does it take to make a permanent correction?  This is not a one-shot fix.  It is a process and I’ve discovered that even if you aren’t thrilled with how your body looks, you have to persevere in the process to get to the pot of gold at the end of that particular rainbow.

You have to learn that life is mental.  You have to learn that  your Mind is capable of manifesting whatever it wants. You have to learn the process by which you accomplish said manifesting. You have to reason through many, many, many cherished beliefs - for example, beliefs about heredity, beliefs about religion and God, beliefs about food, beliefs about medicine, beliefs about TV and magazine “cures” - and this can take quite a while.

What you end up with is still a large body, but a purified soul.  As the soul (or Mind - they are synonymous) purifies, you become more and more dependent on real, causative, corrections or cures. And at some point, you find yourself very close to the pot of gold (I can see if from here!) and you realize that all the years’ efforts were so worth while. What remains is to do the last, final, stately mental work and then manifest permanently the perfect body you’ve been dreaming about all these years.

In my book My Cats Have Seen Me Naked, I have told the story of how I figured out all of this. It was my hope and desire to save  you a lot of time, to show you where the rocks in the road are, so that you, too, could make a permanent correction and enjoy your strongest desires.

Love you,

Pat

If You're Stuck in the Snow, Rethink your Resolutions

If any of you plus sized ladies are at all like me as I suspect you are, you shyed away from making any resolutions this year because, what the heck, they never play out anyway.  Am I right?

Honey girl, you deserve to have dreams and you deserve to make those dreams come true. If you will read through the Blog Posts I did here, and if you look for the 14 main points explained there, you will have at your fingertips the key ideas for how to make all your own dreams manifest.

• You are entitled to have your dreams come true as a plus sized woman.
• In this mental universe, you are capable of thinking your way into success. Nobody’s excluding you because you are plus sized….unless you are.  You aren’t, are you?
• You can hold fast to all the lovely ideas that encompass your dream and think them, think them, think them with the full expectation that they will appear in your experience.  This has zip to do with your size, so please don’t add that exception to your thinking.
• Once you get a completely detailed mental picture in your mind of precisely what your dream looks like, be that some object, some event, or a particularly shaped body, and you hold that picture in front of your mind as you think of it, it will become manifestly clear to you in all the details of its truth, and it will become a manifestation right in front of your face.

I’d like nothing more for you this year than for you to manifest your dreams.  You so deserve that.

Hugs,

Pat